Charly Boy’s men-o-pause Story

Popular media personality Charles Oputa otherwise known as Charly Boy has come up with another write-up, this time, he is touching the medical line. Charly Boy wrote about menopause as it affects men which many men do not think The message is specifically directed at men who don’t know about their sexuality, particularly what he calls Men-O-Pause. He thinks he has attained a position to speak on it. Do men experience menopause? Charly Boy wrote: “If you are above 40yrs old, then you have every business reading this. If not, however, you still need to go ahead and read because your own time dey come. I mostly talk about the experiences I have been through, to talk to me and sometimes to heal me or some of the people I counsel.I share things I have learnt, so others can pick any positives that may help them in their journey through life. Na so. The stage I am at now and what am going through, is what I have discussed with so many men including my father-in-law in the past 30yrs. I never thought or even imagined I would one day be wearing the same shoes myself. Some men right now are experiencing symptoms that include fatigue, serious mood swings, depression and wait for it”¦.sexual problems; like not being as desirous of your spouse sexually as you have been in the past. Like noticing things you didn’t use to notice in the past in your house hold. Like being irritable and short fused or the feeling of being alone even when you’re surrounded by family.Oyinbo people get name for am, dem dey call am Men-O-Pause.” The grandfather went further to enlighten the menfolk when he wrote: “When a woman is moody, it’s hormones. When a man is moody, it’s work related stress, money problems, or just one of those days, right? Maybe not!