The Kind of Woman I Want to Be

Hi diary, I am a woman…okay, it’s been a while I went out, because it has been a thing for the last couple of months. The reason for this being the young lady who is trying to be herself and to secure a safe haven in the so-called “wicked world”.However, while I was going out yesterday, I came across something that really struck me. So when I got home, I stood in front of my mirror and I asked myself the question: what kind of woman do I want to be?After ruminating on the question, I came to the conclusion that, I just want to be the best version of me by adding values to life. Probably, this would make me happy in whatever I do. Perhaps, value is a key that opens many doors.It is so simple; it’s not necessary monetary but sharing the little I have with everyone I have an encounter with. A quick question- do you contribute to other people’s life in a positive way? That is the point!

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So, I want to be the kind of woman with a chameleon spirit who can quickly adjust to new circumstances. I want to be flexible with whatever that comes my way and to one that can control her emotionsI want to be the kind of woman who is genuinely interested in the world. The world includes the people and everything around it. I wish to be a woman who adds values to people’s life by being a good listener, offering honest opinions, and teaching friends what they might not have known.I desire to be the kind of woman who has the power and confidence that comes from knowing that she was created to be an instrument that brings change. I long to be a woman who is an agent of change in her place of work, in her family, and in her environment at large.The woman who can heal when she is down in spirit, who embraces failure as a step to achieving another one 8s all I want to be; the one who knows that she often will not get whatever she desires but she can stay strong to fight through it.The woman who respects people regardless of the relationship we have, who leads, speaks up, believes and encourages…Among others, this is a mind-set I’d have to reinforce. I will exhibit it always and it will eventually reward me.Therefore I ask you, what kind of woman do you want to be?…yours sincerely.